Loading ...

How many times in our lives have we put something off because we’re not ready, we need more time, we don’t feel comfortable, etc. I’ve completed 10 Ironman Triathlons and over 40 10- day non-stop Eco-Challenge Adventure Races through the most remote places on earth, and here’s a secret: I didn’t feel ‘ready’ for any of them. There was always more I could have done to train, I needed more time to prepare, or I wished I could delay the start until a day when I felt stronger. Truth be told, I would most likely never have approached a start line or undertaken those “risks” to journey into the unknown physically, emotionally, inter-personally if there wasn’t a specific date on the calendar and someone with a megaphone saying “go!” But I am so glad I did. I wouldn’t give back those moments, memories and lessons for anything on earth. It’s in those moments of risk where we are forced to rise to a challenge, that we add another brick to the foundation of our character, confidence and strength. So how do we stop “wishing” we had more guts and inspire ourselves to ditch the vanilla life for a big satisfying scoop of Rocky Road less Traveled?

Step into Character: Nobody knows what’s going on inside your head but you. Remember that to the outside world you appear 100% to be the businessperson, triathlete, writer, (enter your dream here.) Try to see yourself the way your colleagues and friends see you; confident, smart, talented, and BE that person. For example, I’m the biggest introvert on earth, and I’m a speaker for a living now. How? Right before I go on stage, I think about the person that everyone in the audience is expecting to meet (verses little scared me!) and the moment they invite me onto the stage, I become her.

*Do it Anyway: How you feel is far less important than what you DO. Feeling scared, nervous and uncomfortable when you’re rappelling off that symbolic cliff is just a GIVEN. It’s the price of admission for an exceptional life! The only difference between you and the person who is living your dream is that he/she felt the fear and ‘did it anyway.’ Whenever I told my judo coach I was scared before a big tournament, his response was always the same, “yeah…and…so what?” Fear will always be there when we face risks. In fact, I’ve come to embrace fear as the vigilant guardian and trusted friend that gives me a “heads up” to be at my best. But we just can’t let our emotions affect our locomotion.

*Focus on How it Will Feel to Succeed (instead of obsessing about failure): When you’re driving your car or riding your bike, where is your focus? On where you WANT to go, right? We get into the most trouble when we start focusing on where we DON’T want to go (the ditch, the puddle, the loose gravel, etc) because that’s where we will end up! So why, when we’re analyzing our risks, do we get so obsessed with what we don’t want to happen instead of envisioning what success will look like? Top athletes are masters of visualization. They envision themselves performing the perfect routine, victoriously crossing the finish line, and suffuse the feeling of that success into their mind and heart with the hope of achieving peak performance. We can do that too! What will it look like, feel like, smell like, and who will be there cheering when you achieve that goal? Use that image to guide you on your mission as well as inspire you through the rough patches along the way.

I see you at that finish line, victorious! Don’t you? The capable, talented, smart, driven person who let fear whisper in their ear but let courage rule their heart? Yep. That’s you!

Adventure Always (and happy Rocky Road Ice Cream Life!)

Mt. San Jacinto Climb 2014

Join us on Saturday, September 20, 2014 at 5:00 a.m. for a hike up Mt. San Jacinto with World Renowned Adventure Racer Robyn Benincasa.

Written By: Robyn Benincasa

World Champion Adventure Racer, San Diego City Firefighter, Founder of World Class Teams, Flashover Seminars and Project Athena Foundation, Motivation/Leadership/Teamwork Speaker.

• 
• 
• 
• 
•